Children, Money and Frugal Living
by Nikki Willhite
Children need to be taught about
money. They need to know that money comes from time and work. When children learn how difficult it
is to make money, they will have more respect for money. They will
have more appreciation for the things that you buy for them.
I was touched by a story I recently
heard that illustrates just how astute and considerate a young boy can be when it comes
to family finances.
This story is from the life of Curtis
Martin. Curtis played football for the Patriots and Jets. His career
was short, due to a knee injury (10 years) but when he retired he had the fourth
highest total of rushing yards in NFL history.
Things were not easy for Curtis when
he was young. He lived in one of those inner city areas full of drugs and
To add to the trauma in his life, his grandmother
was found dead with a knife in her chest, and at one time Curtis had a loaded gun pointed at
his head. The trigger was pulled seven times, but it never
Curtis Martin was raised by his dear
mother. The father had left the family, and to take care of her family his
mother had to work two jobs.
You would think that a child
surrounded by so many terrible things would be insensitive. Most of the
children in his neighborhood did join gangs and get involved with crime and
However, Curtis was different.
When Curtis was 8 years old, he went to his mother and told her that he saw how
hard she worked with her two jobs. He said he knew they didn't have a lot
of money. He told her that he didn't want her to buy him any more
birthday or Christmas presents, because they just didn't have the money for it.
What a blessing Curtis Martin was to
his mother and what a great example Curtis Martin is of sacrifice and compassion
to children everywhere. My guess is that his mother was also very special.
She was responsible for him playing sports. He didn't even like football,
but she wanted him busy so he wouldn't be tempted to make bad choices.
Do not underestimate the ability of
your children to understand money, show restraint, help out, and participate in the
frugal efforts of your family. Prepare your children for their future lives
by instilling in them respect for time, work, and money.
Teach by your words and by example. Nurture your relationship with your
teach them now, while they are in their youth, the importance of frugal living
and how it will bless
their lives, and the lives of those they love.
About the Author: Nikki Willhite,
mother of 3 and an interior design graduate, has been writing and publishing
articles on the topic of
frugal living for over a
decade. Visit her at
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