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How to Grow Old Gracefully
By John
Pawlak
We have all heard this
resolution: "I am determined to grow old gracefully." It
might not have been put quite like that but the meaning
was clear, getting older does not equate with giving up.
Aging is a journey we all must take and with the proper
attitude, lifestyle and a bit of luck, our later years
can be very fulfilling. On the other hand, if we do not
take steps and develop a plan for life in our retirement
years, we may very well find ourselves unhappy and
wondering why the world has passed us by.
Perhaps the biggest factor in enjoying our senior years is accepting the
fact that we are now older and very normal limitations
now abound. The pursuit of a youthful appearance can go
only so far until it becomes somewhat silly and even
degrading. Wearing our years honestly brings with it a
certain dignity that we will benefit from. We can no
longer do all the things we used to, but that does not
mean we are, by any means, helpless.
We need to tolerate the inevitable loss of our physical strength and realize
that asking for help can lead to closer ties with our
families and friends. Speaking of friends, now is the
time to reach out to old and new ones. If we cultivate
the skill of really listening to what others are saying,
we might just find that our vast experience gained over
the years can be a font of knowledge that is readily
accepted by friends in need of a little help.
Many older folks seem to lose the joy that they once had and tend to worry
more and withdraw from friends and family. Doctors now
say that laughter can be one of the best medicines for a
senior citizen. Keeping your sense of humor and being
able to laugh at yourself is a great attitude to develop
and will increase our popularity with those around us.
Now we come to what I consider to be the most important factor in
determining how much we will enjoy our senior years. I
believe it is essential to maintain or acquire a passion
for some activity and a lively interest in a number of
areas would be best.
We will all have much more free time on our hands and using that time wisely
will strengthen our zest for life and keep us mentally
sharp and active. Travelling, hobbies and group
activities all work to keep us engaged and prevent us
from drawing in on ourselves and withdrawing from the
world; the greatest danger to a seniors state of mind.
A good question to ask ourselves as we approach our senior years is this:
"What good does it do us to add years to our lives if,
at the same time, we do not add life to our years?" It
is a terrific question to ask and our answer will make
all the difference in the world as to how we spend our
"golden years".
About the Author: The Teacher (aka John Pawlak) has been involved in
education for over 25 years. He has developed a series
of fashion websites which include:
Juicy Couture clothing, handbags,
footwear and accessories.
Kate Spade handbags, footwear and
accessories.
Vera Bradley handbags, footwear
and accessories.
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