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Simplify, Simplify, Simplify
by Louise Morganti Kaelin
Just as location is the key driver to success in real estate,
simplification is the key to success in life. No matter how much you want your
life to change, it's impossible if there is no room for change.
We tend to fill our lives with activity and with 'stuff'. It's
supposed to mean we're successful, that we're fully living. The reality is that
it usually just leaves us feeling overwhelmed, crowded and with a longing for a
simpler, quieter life. By filling every minute of the day, we find ourselves
with no time to be 'quiet', to go within, to find the inner peace that allows us
to be creative, productive and free. By having too much stuff, we feel cramped,
stifled and burdened. We feel restricted by 'too much' of everything and this
impedes our ability to do what's truly important to us.
It's not necessary to go down to the bare minimum, but it is
essential that we give ourselves room to grow and time to be reflective. And
there is a pervasive effect. Simplifying your life in any area gives you more
'space' in all areas. Try it!
To get you started, here are a few ideas to simplify your
life. Get prepared for a burst of energy from doing each one of these.
1. Clean out your closet. Throw or give away what you no
longer wear. [Recently read a great tip for this. Take 10 minutes to re- arrange
all the hangers in your closets back-wards, with the hook facing the front. Once
you've washed or cleaned something, hang it up with the hangar facing the usual
way. After a time you've set (3 to 6 months, after a 'season') get rid of all
the clothes whose hangars are still facing the front. This is an easy and almost
painless way of cleaning out the closet!]
2. Keep your inbox clean. Delete as much as possible as soon
as you've read it. Use a simple folder system to file the rest. Use large
groupings such as chronological time (January through December, rolling year).
Filing by topic, unless it is a large project, seldom works. [How often have you
found 4 folders on the same project, all called something different?]. Use the
tools available in your mailbox to auto-filter email. Choose a primary email
reader and have all others auto-forwarded to that email box. Most email readers
allow you to automatically delete or file mail from specific individuals.
3. Schedule a breather. If you live by a calendar, schedule
one hour a day to allow some breathing space. Use this to time to go through
email, do call-backs, read important mail. Or use it go outside and get some
air. Take a quick walk around the block. Five minutes away from your work area
(even, or especially, if you work at home) can have a dramatic effect on your
productivity.
4. Schedule time to work on specific projects. You leave most
meetings with something to do, right? Give yourself time to work on these things
by scheduling work-time in your calendar. Otherwise, it will be 6pm and you get
to start 'working'.
5. Pick a corner. Divide your desk or room into sections. Pick
one section and start de-cluttering. Try to touch things only once while going
through this process. Use 3 boxes or bags, marking them as follows: 'Keep',
'Give Away'; and 'Toss'. If it's paper, ask yourself 'If I lost it, could I find
it elsewhere?' If the answer is yes, throw it away. Where ever possible, come up
with a system that will allow you to maintain the de-cluttered space. [Another
tip: if you find yourself having trouble parting with some items, put them in a
box, label the box with a date 6 months from now, store in garage or closet. If
you haven't gone into the box by the time the date rolls around, throw it away
without opening it.]
6. Delegate. Stop trying to do everything yourself. Ask
yourself 'Where is it important that I spend my time? How do I want to spend my
time?' Get rid of everything else. This includes things like getting someone to
clean the house, using automatic bill- paying systems, etc. If you are
delegating to a work associate or family member, be sure to delegate the whole
thing (how to do it as well as what to do.) If it can only be done 'your way',
then you will be the only one who can do it.
7. Automate. If you have to do anything on a regular schedule,
develop a system that is easily repeatable. Use the tools that make the most
sense for the job. This ranges from using templates for written documents to
cleaning the house in a specific pattern. Find out what works for you and then
make it better (and faster!).
8. Buy in Bulk. Buy 6-month supplies of things you use on a
daily basis. And to simplify even more, order them through the web and have them
delivered to your house! We spend an inordinate amount of time running
'errands'. Keeping large supplies on hand is a great way to pick up some extra
time.
9. Get rid of old commitments or goals. Sometimes we find
ourselves doing things or hanging on to goals that were right at one point in
our life, but no longer fit who we are now. Stop to think about every thing
you're doing or working towards. Does it still fit your life today? If not, stop
doing it or get rid of it as a goal.
10. You get to choose the pace. Whether you pick 'Fast &
Furious' or 'Slow & Easy', the important thing is to keep working on simplifying
your life and finding ways to keep it simple. Let yourself have fun and be
creative with this.
Louise Morganti Kaelin. Louise is a Life Success
Coach who partners with individuals who are READY (to live their best life),
WILLING (to explore all options) and ABLE (to accept total support). Find many
free resources to assist you in living the life of your dreams at
http://www.touchpointcoaching.com
For her free newsletter of insightful, practical suggestions for creating your
best life, email mailto:on-536@ezezine.com
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