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Leading
Change from Obesity toward Health
by Julie Donley, RN
Obesity is a now a huge health epidemic – I
don’t need to tell you this. It’s on television and the news. There are several
reality shows such as ‘the biggest loser’ and ‘heavy’. You may even be able to
look down at your own scale or at family members to see just how big the problem
is (pun intended!).
We know it is a
problem. People talk about how we need to do more to correct the problem and
little things are starting to change such as new menus at the popular fast food
restaurants and even in school cafeterias.
But even with
these little changes, we have a long way to go toward health. Today, the
statistics are staggering with over two-thirds of the United States adult
population being either obese or overweight.
How did we get so
far away from health and the fitness craze of the 1980’s? There are many reasons
for the obesity problem. These are just a few:
· -
Extra calories are added to everything from soups
to pasta sauce to condiments.
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We are drinking more calories than ever before with
the average person drinking 450 calories a day.
· -
We eat fast giving us indigestion and causing
stomach upset. Eating fast can cause us eat more than we need to and with less
enjoyment. We also choose poorly when we grab something on the run. Eating
healthy often requires a little planning.
· -
Less activity and more television, video games and
sedentary lifestyles. The elimination of recess at schools.
· -
Packaged foods and less home cooking. Our
grandparents and great-grandparents cooked everything at home. Today, we buy
packaged, processed foods and ingest unnatural preservatives, chemicals and
sugars unnecessarily added to ‘enhance flavor’ but which have the effect of
increasing desire for more. They also cause us to store more fat.
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We eat too much. We eat more than our bodies need.
We mistake thirst for hunger and eat instead of drink water. We eat when we are
emotional. We eat when we are full. We eat when we see food. We have lost
control and fallen prey to advertising, ‘super-sizing’ and our own appetites.
We are busy, less
active and eat more. We eat unhealthy food substitutes and eat on the run. When
did eating become such a chore?
The
Consequences
The consequences of moving so far away from
health and fitness are also staggering. Everything has a cost to it.
· Health
costs: more sick days, more trips to the doctor, more
prescriptions, more co-pays, more pain, more surgeries, etc. Obesity increases
your risk for heart disease, strokes, Type II diabetes, high cholesterol,
several cancers, liver and gallbladder disease, sleep apnea and respiratory
problems, varicose veins, osteoarthritis (a degeneration of cartilage and its
underlying bone within a joint) and gynecological problems (abnormal menses,
infertility). Let’s face it, the more you weigh, the harder it is on your body,
joints, back, organs, heart…
·
Life costs: Obesity
increases your risk of premature death.
·
Financial costs:
medical expenses and higher insurance premiums, gasoline, wear and tear on our
cars, costs of food, even clothing. And these are just the personal
expenditures.
· Business
costs: sick time, down time at work, decreased
productivity, restricted activity, absenteeism and bed days.
· Relationship
costs: with the strain your weight causes on your body
and your mental health, it also puts a strain on your relationships. If you’re
not happy and healthy, that impacts people around you. Even colleagues feel the
pinch when you are out sick or cannot perform to your ability.
· Being
overweight impacts your energy levels, self-esteem
and mood. It is tiring
to carry extra weight around.
· All
of this impacts your mental health causing depression and anxiety as well
as other mental health issues.
How Do We
Change?
Change begins by taking the first step. We
must begin with ourselves and then, show others the path. There is nothing more
hypocritical than listening to a doctor or nurse give nutrition or exercise
advice when he/she is obese. We have to be role models and “Be the change you
wish to see in the world.” You cannot just tell others what to do. You cannot
teach your kids if you are not doing it for yourself. No, change begins with you
– with each of us taking a stand for ourselves and taking charge or our
health and happiness.
There is a simple
formula to change but it has eight steps. These are outlined in the book
Does Change have to be so H.A.R.D.?
1. Commitment.
When you are committed, you will go to any and all lengths to accomplish your
goal. Commit to your health. Commit to being healthy enough to enjoy your
grandkids and your spouse. Do it because you are worth it.
2.
Envision a better future.
Dream of your life when you are a thinner and healthier version of yourself. How
will you be different? How will you feel? What will you be doing?
3. Develop
the characteristics you need to succeed. This means,
you have to tell yourself a new story about being healthy and thin, update your
self-image and change your inner dialogue. Who will you become in this new
vision of yourself? Identify the qualities, the values and the behaviors and
start living them today.
4. Create
an environment to support the change. This includes
the external environment such as visiting new places and cleaning out your
pantry. It also means developing a support system or community to assist you in
becoming this new version of yourself. You need an external support system to
champion the internal work you are doing.
5. Take
action. Without action, nothing changes. Each small
step contributes to your success.
6. Celebrate
your success along the way. I cannot tell you how
important this step is! As you celebrate and acknowledge how wonderful you are
doing, you gain momentum and motivation. Your confidence builds. And you
reinforce your commitment to stay the course.
7. Laugh
and enjoy the journey. If you are not having fun, you won’t do it. You
will turn back. If you cannot see the value, if you are not committed to the
journey but only to the destination, it will be too hard to stick to the path
and you will likely fail.
8.
Adopt
empowering beliefs.
If you don’t believe you can, you won’t. If you limit yourself, you will remain
limited. This is probably the most important of these strategies because if you
do not believe in the possibility for success, no matter what you think, do or
say, you will find ways to sabotage your success to prove you are right. What
you believe becomes your reality.
Change begins with you. Let’s
envision something new, and together, let’s make the world – our world – a
healthier and happier place.
©
Julie Donley: Success
Expert & Author of
Does Change have to be so
H.A.R.D.?
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