by Nikki Willhite
I'll admit..... I do not like math. I do not like numbers, and I do not
like budgets. Unfortunately, many of our decisions these days
require us to think about numbers and to do math. These are the decisions
that relate to
money.
Money seems to be the driving force of our lives. We may place more value
on family and faith, but when it comes to our time, making money takes precedence.
If we don't think about money, and play with numbers, we are
going to get into trouble- if not today, tomorrow.
I am old enough to remember when things were different. Women
were able to stay home and do things that enriched the soul.
They were surrounded by loving children, as well as extended
family members. There was always room at the table for extra
friends and family.
Men worked at one company for most of their lives. When they
reached retirement age, they received a pension for their loyalty
to the company. Many of these pensions included an annual
adjustment for inflation. Men were able to retire without large savings
accounts, and live out the remainder of their lives comfortably.
So many things have changed. Today, company loyalty is all but dead.
Most people can expect to work at not only several different
companies, but at several different occupations during their lifetime.
Companies have quit giving pensions to their employees, and
people are expected to save money for retirement. It can be hard
to save money. While it is good that people are living longer,
retirement has become more difficult. Most people are
more afraid of outliving their money than dying.
Go back a little further in time, and if you've ever done family
history and research, you've seen from census records that years ago widows and widowers went
to live with one of their children in their "old age." Often there
would be other unmarried adults living in the same household.
Now, if you live long enough, you may require assisted living. In
Washington state, this will cost you $6,500 per month. Who has that kind of money? Sure, the
children say they will "take you in"...but with increased age
comes medical conditions that they can not handle, (even assuming they are
healthy), including lifting. bathing, physical therapy, medication management, and
more.
You can go on Medicaid (not Medicare), but you are stripped of
most of your assets, and if you have a spouse, they will be left
in financial trouble.
That is why people buy long term care insurance. Unfortunately, it
is expensive, and most people cannot afford it.
SO WHERE DOES THAT LEAVE US?
That leaves us worrying about money, wondering how we are going to
make it, working even after heart attacks and retirement age, and even
wondering if social security will still be around to help.
And....it makes us have to pay attention to numbers. I think a lot
of people are in denial about the future, because even though they
are losing their homes, going into debt, and concerned about their
jobs, they are still going on
expensive vacations, eating out, visiting spas, buying expensive clothing,
getting their nails done and more.
WAKE UP! You are never going to be able to save the money you need for
your well-being if you continue these practices. It's time to face
reality and the certainty that you will get old, you will lose health
and strength, health care is expensive, and you are going to need a reserve of
money.
No one wants to hear it. No one wants to get old. No one wants to be
poor. However, just as 2 plus 2 equals 4, these things will happen, and if
you don't start budgeting and saving money, life is not going to be pleasant at a
time when you will be most vulnerable.
The younger you are, the more time you have to get your finances in order. Start
yesterday.
Please get your house in order. Get rid of whatever is standing in the way of
preparing for the future. It's your life, today and tomorrow.
How you live today will determine your tomorrows.
About the Author: Nikki Willhite,
mother of 3 and an interior design graduate, has been writing and publishing
articles on the topic of
frugal living for over a
decade. Visit her at
www.frugalhappyfamilies.com
- where you will find hundreds of frugal living tips and articles. Frugal
Happy Families- more than just money!