Shopping with Children
by Nikki Willhite
It is always preferable to go
shopping without your children. However, sometimes you can’t avoid it.
This is especially true with grocery shopping. There are things you can do to
make it easier on yourself and your children. Here are a few.
- Always be sure your children are
well fed before you go shopping. If you are one to use bribes, promise them that
if they behave they will get a special treat when they get home. It doesn’t have
to be food; just something they want.
- If you are going grocery shopping,
and your children are old enough, make them feel part of the process. Show them
your list. Tell them it’s like a game to see if you can get through the store
without buying anything that isn’t on the list. Be sure that there is something
on the list especially for them.
- If you use coupons, have a time
when you cut them out together. Children love to cut out things. They can also
help you file them.
- If the store is a bit of a drive,
make up food games to play on the way. Use your creativity. Make a game out of
reviewing the food groups, and which food is in which group. Name a food group,
and then give them a word which rhymes with one of the items in that group and
have them guess. For instance: "What rhymes with silk?"
- If your children misbehave in the
store, do not feel intimidated by being in public. Deal with it on the spot.
I use to feel that once I started loading food into my cart, I couldn’t leave it
for any reason Then, when my son became a box boy, he was constantly putting
back items from carts that had been abandoned- including frozen food.
I am not saying to leave your cart
permanently-, but if you need to, step outside with your child, take them to
your car, and deal with the situation. Once they realize they don’t have
the upper hand in the store, and that you will still calmly and rationally
discipline them, you will have less problems with them in the future.
- Bring a small, inexpensive
calculator with you, and have one of your older children add up the prices as
you go.
When you get home, let the children
help as much as possible putting the food away. Let them know beforehand what is
expected of them. Explain to them that you have to shop because you all need
food, and how you expect them to behave. Establish rules, and be
consistent.
Try and make shopping, as well as
all your activities with your children, a learning and enjoyable experience.
About the Author: Nikki Willhite, mother of 3 and an interior design
graduate, has been writing and publishing articles on the topic of
frugal living for over a
decade. Visit her at
www.frugalhappyfamilies.com
- where you will find hundreds of frugal living tips and articles. Frugal
Happy Families- more than just money! Article first published at
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