What are you Dreaming About?
by Steve Goodier
The agricultural school dean was interviewing a freshman. "Why
have you chosen this career?" he asked.
"I dream of making a million dollars in farming, like my
father," replied the freshman.
The dean was impressed. "Your father made a million dollars in
farming?"
"No," the student said. "But he always dreamed of it."
All right. That was corny. But at least this student has a
dream, even if it is only a dream about money.
I prefer the story of a man who was discussing with his wife a
trip he wanted to take to Alaska. He told her he’d always dreamed of such an
adventure. He wanted to travel deep into the wilderness. He wanted to rough it.
He talked about how exciting it would be to stay in a log cabin without
electricity, to hunt caribou and drive a dog team instead of a car.
"If we decided to live there permanently, away from
civilization, what would you miss the most?" he asked his partner.
She replied, "You."
His dream; not hers. A better dream might include her.
This is a time of year we often examine our dreams and goals.
I’ve found a couple of questions helpful when I consider which dreams to chase
and which to leave alone.
First, does my dream have deep meaning? Or put another way, is
it significant and important enough to commit my time and energy toward? What
will it ultimately mean if I accomplish this thing I think I want? Probably the
pursuit of prosperity alone will not bring the kind of meaning you desire at a
deeper level.
The second question is similar. Does my dream spring from the
best that is within me? Does it come from a place of love or altruism? Will my
life and the lives of those I love be better for it? My best dreams include
those I love.
What are you dreaming about?
Steve Goodier
Publisher@LifeSupportSystem.com is a professional speaker, consultant and
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